Ways to score points with a woman

Upon returning home find her first before doing anything else and give her a hug.

2. Ask her specific questions about her day that indicate an awareness of what she was planning to do (e.g., "How did your appointment with the doctor go?").

Practice listening and asking questions.

4. Resist the temptation to solve her problems & empathize instead.

5. Give her twenty minutes of unsolicited quality attention (don't read the newspaper or be distracted by anything else during this time).

Bring her cut flowers as a surprise as well as on special occasions.

7. Plan a date several days in advance, rather than waiting for Friday night and asking her what she wants to do.

If she generally makes dinner or if it is her turn and she seems tired or really busy, offer to make dinner.

Compliment her on how she looks.

Validate her feelings when she is upset.

Offer to help her when she is tired.

12. Schedule extra time when traveling so that she doesn't have to rush.

When you are going to be late, call her and let her know.

When she asks for support, say yes or no without making her wrong for asking.

15. Whenever her feelings have been hurt, give her some empathy and tell her "I'm sorry you feel hurt." Then be silent; let her feel your understanding of her hurt. Don't offer solutions or explanations why her hurt is not your fault.

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