Одно заключительное замечание

Эта глава имеет только одну цель — предложить людям подумать о том, как изменять, хотя бы и радикальным путем, явно кризисные явления нашей культуры: брак и все его следствия и альтернативы.

Я хочу добавить, что концепция партнерских взаимоотношений, скрепленных браком или нет, как обширный и многообещающий исследовательский эксперимент, увлекла меня в результате того, что я много изучал данные супружеские пары. Вначале у меня совсем не было такой идеи. Я старался выбрать разумно широкий спектр людей, отражающий состояние общества в целом. Они не казались и не кажутся мне необычными супружескими парами или особенными личностями, за исключением их удивительной готовности рассказать о своей жизни все как есть. Только постепенно я начал видеть, что здесь проходит огромный исследовательский эксперимент, касающийся всех нас. Как мы отнесемся к этому?

От себя я могу только сказать, что мой опыт общения с этими людьми вызвал во мне ровное, более глубокое доверие к их возможности находить плодотворные, здравые решения проблем совместной жизни, если у них есть хотя бы полшанса. Эти люди представляют богатый ресурс для своей страны и особенно для будущего, если мы все сможем поверить и признать серьезность этих перемен, которые происходят в человеческих взаимоотношениях.

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