Practical ways to make her want you

• Show your interest and dedication to her well-being and her high value to you. Most women want to feel they are important and valuable so the men will protect and care for them. If you satisfy her survival needs, her body chemistry will rev up and you will be more attractive to her.
• Prove to her that you really value her and are interested in what she thinks. When you are doing something and she talks to you, do this:

1. Stop what you are doing, look in her eyes and listen with interest. (Try to not go glassy-eyed!)

2. Really listen to what she has to say. She will know if you are interested by the size of your eye pupils! (Small pupils mean you aren't interested!)

3. Encourage her to say more. Let her talk and never jump-in on top of her words. Let her finish, then validate what she said. (Example: "Yes! I agree with what you said. I like that idea.") And most importantly: Don't try to change her view of things to your opinion. Just try to see her world the way she sees it, even if you "know she is wrong".

4. Notice if her voice drops at the end of her statement. If her voice does not drop, she has more to say! Keep listening. Only after she is finished should you go back to what you were doing.

(Guys, get this: She is talking to establish a RELATIONSHIP. And she is watching you to see how interested you are in doing that. If you screw up this connection you will be replaced by the first guy who can do a better job of relating!)

• When she has a problem or concern that she shares with you, don't try to change her or "fix her". That implies there is something wrong with her, but not with you. The DNA programming here is this: Women need to express emotions and how they feel about their personal problems. They want to be heard. That is how they build personal, trusted relationships: They share their problems. To the guy it may sound like complaining or a cry for rescue. It is not a request to get fixed!

When women express feelings or a problem, this often comes across to men as something that needs to be fixed. So naturally, men want to jump in and fix everything. Guys don't try to fix her! Mostly just listen and accept her the way she is. She just wants to be heard and to express her feelings. That is what women do to build a relationship! Just offer your support and help only if she requests it.

• Guys don't try to be anything you aren't! Save the status bragging for your buddies. Men have a strong DNA need to raise their status, so they compete, brag, or lie to try to show they are "the best hunter in the tribe". Just be real and let her see that you are an honest and caring guy -- just like every woman wants but has a hard time finding.
• Don't try to disguise your feelings from a woman. Woman can naturally read body language and facial micro-movements without even trying. If you try to hide your real feelings, she will see you as a big fake and not trust anything you say or do. She will not feel safe and secure with you. Her true passion will never be released with you!

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