Step 1: Watch for the Right Eye Contact

• [NOTE: Do this only in a place where it is appropriate to meet a woman.]

Casually look at each woman's face. Watch each woman's eyes to see how she returns your eye contact. You should not break eye contact before she does.

Your goal is to look at her politely and interestingly, and wait to see how SHE breaks eye contact with you. How she breaks eye contact is a very important signal for you! She will break eye contact with you in one of two ways: quickly or delayed.

What you are looking for is a delayed eye contact from the woman lasting slightly longer than usual. You will soon learn the difference in timing between the women who disconnect instantly and those who hold eye contact longer than normal. Research has measured this timing difference in milliseconds (thousandths of a second) but men's brains can detect this difference because it is highly developed DNA programming. Here are the rules for this "eye contact mating signal":

• If she likes and accepts your interest in her, she will hold eye contact with you slightly longer than normal, and then drop her eyes DOWN to the table, to her drink, or to her hands. Dropping her eyes down is in her DNA as an ancient body language cue saying that she will be passive and accept you approaching her. She will do this unconsciously if she wants to meet you!

While she is looking down, and waiting for you to approach, she very likely will do some preening motions. She will usually fluff her hair, check her nails, or fuss with her clothes. This means she wants to look good for you. That is good news for you!

Remember: Her slightly longer eye contact, plus her looking DOWN while you look at her, means she will accept you approaching her. She will not resist or hurt you. She will be waiting for you to approach her. This signal is in her DNA from all ancestors who mated successfully using it. It worked for them and it will probably work for you!

• Women who do not want a man's advances, and do not want him to approach, will quickly break eye contact and look to their LEFT or RIGHT. Quickly looking left or right means they are not interested and definitely are not going to be passive if approached. They often also turn their upper body away. At their deep unconscious level they are hiding their breasts from view and saying, "You can't see that I am a woman. Do not approach me." Any clueless guy approaching a woman sending these negative body language cues is setting himself up for a harsh and painful rejection!

Remember guys: Stay away from the women who break eye contact with you by quickly looking away to their left or right! Also, only do this eye-contact "test" a couple of times an evening on each of the women who weren't too negative the first time. Forget those who quickly looked away left or right!

Also be realistic in your expectations. If you do not find any "down-lookers", there may not be any woman there who wants or needs a man for the time being. ("If there are no fish in this pond, go somewhere else to fish!")

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