Work with your partner. Discuss the questions below. Then share your ideas with the class.

1. What is Tannen's main point in the first passage? Try to summarize her main point in one sentence. Then compare sentences with your classmates.

2. Think about how a woman from your culture might

a. apologize for being late.

b. ask a friend for a favour.

c. respond when a friend is late.

Now think how a man might respond in these situations. Based on your answers, would you say that men and women in your culture communicate differently? Share your thoughts with your classmates.

3. Choose one of the situations below to role-play with a partner. Practice your conversation and then role play it for your classmates.

a. A man invites a woman to lunch and she declines.

b. A man invites a male friend to lunch and he declines.

c. A woman needs her husband to help with something at home.

d. A man needs his wife to help with something at home.

e. A student asks a professor for an extra day to complete an assignment that is due.

4. What are some politeness strategies that exist in your native lan­guage? Are these strategies similar to or different from politeness strategies in English? Describe these differences to the class and relate any miscommunication that you think could occur between people from the U.S. and your culture.

(From Advanced Listening Comprehension: Developing Aural and Note-taking Skills, Third Edition by P.Dunkel, F.Pialorsy)

WRITING: Male and Female Communication Patterns

Write a composition of 300 words. Answer each question below in a paragraph. Use the notes that you took on the lectures to provide support for the claims you make in your composition.

1. Explain how people's perceptions of reality and their behavior are shaped by culture. Consider the stereotype that women talk more than men when answering.

2. Analyze the ways that children's play can shape the patterns of communication children later adopt when they grow up.

3. Compare and contrast the communication patterns in typical North American boys' games and typical North American girls' games.

4. Name two aspects of communication that are affected by culture and provide specific examples of how these aspects of communica­tion differ among cultures.

5. Agree or disagree with the following statement: "Male-female conversation is not cross-cultural communication." Be sure to support your argument with facts and details.

PROJECT: Male and Female Language

In this project you are going to analyse the peculiarities of male and female language.

1. First find a partner to work with on this project.

2. Record conversations between men, women and mixed man and women. Do you agree with the conclusions given below in the box?

Robin Lakoff in her book Language and Women’s place (1975) identified the following ten features as "Women's Language": 1. Hedges, e.g. sort of; kind of, I guess; 2. (Super) polite forms e.g. would you please...I'd really appreciate it if:.., 3. Tag questions; 4. Speaking in italics, e.g. emphatic so and very, intonational language; 5. Empty adjectives, e.g. charming, sweet, adorable; 6. Hypercorrect grammar and pronunciation; 7. Lack of a sense of humour e.g. poor at telling jokes; 8. Direct quotations, e.g. "Hannah said that he said..."; 9. Special vocabulary, e.g. specialised colour terms like 'Dove grey'; 10. Question intonation in declarative contexts.

3. Compile a questionnaire to determine people's views on the language of men and of women. e.g. Who talks most and why, who is more assertive, who can tell a joke better, who gets their own way and how...

4. Taking the conclusions above, draw up a list of opposite features which might be typical of men.

5. Make a list of suggestions for a men's magazine showing how a man could communicate more easily with a woman.

6. Present your findings to the class.

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