Step 2: If you receive her looking down signal, the next step is to approach her.

Your confident approach to talk to her will show her that you are a self-confident and aggressive "Alpha Male". She likes that and is waiting for you. Don't delay, as that signals insecurity and not a true Alpha Male.

As you walk toward her she will be observing your body language and forming an opinion about you in only seconds! Most women watch the body language and face of every man approaching them to determine if the man is dangerous. This ability to read men is in women's DNA and is a valuable instinct for survival. This habit comes from women's ancestors and over a million years of experience around men!

If you approach her with a smile and self-confident relaxed walk, it is the body language signal that reassures her that you are not dangerous. Women, and many animals, can read body language very well even from a distance, so the way you approach her is important.

The trick is to minimize the movement of every body part not necessary for walking, and to be standing as tall and straight as possible. Excess movements of head, arms, or pelvis and butt reveal nervousness. Slouching over indicates trying to hide and a need for protection. If you approach her with your walk perfected, her hormones will kick in by the time you get to her because it is part of her DNA programming!

Step 3: You Should Start the Conversation with an "Opening Line"

When you get close to her, stop, stand still and erect, greet her, say your name, and ask some simple question like this: "Hello! My name is (real name). May I join you?" An elaborate or tricky "opening line" just reveals insecurity or stupidity, and it is an immediate turn-off for most women. Just stating your name and a request to join her are sufficient. Your simple request is honest and makes it easy for her to respond in a positive way. She knows why you approached her! She told you with her eye signals that you could approach her and that she would not resist you. She has been waiting for you and is very pleased that you selected her from among all the other women there!

Also try to keep your chest out and breathing relaxed. (That is hard to do -- and to keep your gut sucked in at the same time!) This will help your voice to be low. A high voice indicates nervousness and fear. A low voice indicates lots of testosterone, and that will unconsciously trigger off nice tingles in her as her hormones start surging.

Step 4: Now Both of You Do "Data Gathering"

The purpose of data gathering is to determine if there is enough common interests for the two of you to spend more time together and maybe become mates. During the data gathering step the two of you may move physically and emotionally closer. How this progresses is best left for the woman to establish. She will provide you with the body language signals you need to understand how close you may get both emotionally and physically.

You probably already know most of the negative "do-not-get-close" cues such as crossed arms and legs, leaning back in the chair, and body turned away from you. However, if you don't push into her personal space, and she accepts you and wants you to get closer both physically and emotionally, she will let you know by a powerful body language cue. Here is how this "you-may-get-closer" cue works. Watch for it!

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